#SundaySermon 7/23/23: “The Heart of Usefulness” by Rev. Cory Coberforward

Rev. Cory Coberforward of Church of the Good Shepherd, Kitchener, ON, Canada

Please check out the sermon above, (press “CCon your YouTube video for subtitles) above, and more extensive writing, by Rev. Coberforward, below.

The heart of usefulness is the heart of love that beats within each of our spirits: the heart of the universe, the infinite Heart of God that we all share. Within this heart all things rise, and so it is also called the light and warmth of consciousness. We’re told by sages that all things that arise must be used eventually for good, a truth often hard to fathom. That being said, the Lord has told us throughout the world religions that God desires good things for us, God points us within to the peace, love, and joy that God is (whatever we call God), and promises that Divinity will eventually bring all beings into knowing itself. Finding this core of Life within is the ultimate purpose of life, according to the sage Emanuel Swedenborg, as well as many others. This means that all things in life are ultimately useful to the extent that they support people’s awakening to the Great Spirit within themselves and all things; as it’s said Christ said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life,” or, in other words, “I AM is the way, the truth, and the life.” In that way, for us our supreme usefulness is initially just coming to know our own true heart.

You could say that the coin we offer for finding the salvation that is God within, is our very being, although already in God’s hands in fullness. Christ told us that we have to give up our lives to find it, to lose ourselves to gain God. In fact, true wisdom is found when we just allow God to flow through us, “Your will be done,” knowing that what we thought was ourselves doing good is ultimately Divine. This will is not dependent on someone else’s opinions but is seen clearly as the will of God through our greater awakening to God. However, this is often a process.

The trouble is that we think that we do. Try not to do anything in a day – now that’s true labor! The less you strive to do, the harder it becomes (for reference, try not breathing). Life flows through us and is one with us, but we have such a sense of “workfulness” that we suffer our natural experiencing, the natural actions and thoughts that arise through us due to our socializing and our spirit. These become further transformed and flow when we let go of our overinvestment in them to instead embrace the heart of the moment, the openness of what we are, the unity of God present to us in the only moment there ever is: now. When we truly become aware that it is God that ultimately does all good, that God is the only true power in the universe, then we become like the angels in Swedenborg’s visions: still living our lives but with a renewed sense of peace, joy, originality, fearlessness, love, mercy, humor. and connectedness with all things.

The beauty of Dr. Wilson Van Dusen’s approach to the idea of usefulness is its devotional aspect, this is where we contemplate in feeling and thought the God that is life and our shared being while we do anything throughout the day. He wrote that this makes all activity devotional and of service. Wilson Van Dusen is an inspirational Swedenborgian figure, especially well-known in the 20th century, who took Swedenborg’s idea of usefulness and empowered it to be of better service to Swedenborgians and many others. But of course, it was God who did this! Like anything that has at its core our Divine Parent, the power within the idea of use was always there, but in Wilson’s reflective approach we can more easily find the true blessing that this concept offers us. The core of his approach to usefulness is the practice of returning to our orientation towards the core of life, beyond the trivialities of our selfish judgments and analysis. This orients us naturally to the well-being of all being, brings us further into Being itself, and in that way naturally guides us into other useful modes of feeling, thinking, and doing.  

The trick is really understanding that the word “use” in this light isn’t defined in the same way that the world might define it. Use, from Swedenborg and Van Dusen’s perspective, is more dependent on where our hearts and minds are oriented, less on the specific act that we are doing. In the same way, Christ taught us to pray that the Lord’s will be done, and he himself said “Not my will but Your will be done.” This highlights Christ’s teachings that we should primarily be orienting ourselves towards God and God’s will, which is of the greatest usefulness. Centered on this core of use, we are then led to activities and expressions that are externally useful either from habit or from a more clearly Divine impetus, but that are now grounded in the ground of being: the type of awareness of our shared life in Divinity that God is always seeking from us.  

This brings us into the naturalness of life that we were always meant to have, and indeed, that we never truly lost although missed. God has always been with us as our life itself, the light of awareness and love, but we’ve allowed our concepts of being separate and our ignorance of how true this is to blind us from God, from the Prince of Peace already at the seat of being. It’s said that Adam and Eve left the garden due to their eating from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil, and we ourselves continue to miss the garden within due to our identification with our own Tree of Knowledge. We have to start to let go of all of our personal judgments and turn to the Divine wisdom of our shared being.

Our minds as they currently stand cannot really understand why there is evil, although Swedenborg’s explanations about free will and being used for good through comparison and learning can go a long way. It is only the mind of God, the heart of God within, that can see through all occurrences and just see God at work, feel God at work, even through the evil that God could never will directly. Accepting the inherent wisdom and truth of God’s infinity within is what Christ meant when he told us to follow him and become one with the Father and perfect like the Father. It is in this transpersonal light that Jesus said, “I am the way,” as opposed to his seemingly more personal moments, like when he prayed, “Not my will but Your will be done.”

In this light, all things are useful. But a true embodiment of use is found when we centre on God and the light of love that we all are and do the good things that spring from there. This sort of usefulness carries with it the peace that we find centering on Divinity and on the reality that God is here, God is whole, and God needs nothing and is one with us. This releases us from striving to do useful things and instead, centers us on the supreme usefulness of life and being itself. From there our uses flow, not to be compared and contrasted with our neighbours’, but enjoyed in the fullness of the light and love that we have started to uncover as our very heart.

Rev. Cory Coberforward

#SomethingWonderful #ArtistSpotlight: Joan Amato

We will be highlighting some of our exhibiting artists from our upcoming “Something Wonderful” Art Show and Sale (9/11/21) over the next few days. We hope you enjoy learning about these artists, and what has brought art into their lives, as well as the media and subject matter on which they’ve chosen to focus.

Joan Amato works mainly in acrylics and has been painting for 50 years, more proficiently since retirement.  She is self-taught and enjoys color and experimenting with it.  She has taught seniors most recently at Warren County Senior Center (741), and finds that most people are unaware of the talents they possess.

#ServiceWithASmile: Dinner for Our Neighbors @BethanyHouseSvcs

During the pandemic, it has been easy to see the need all around us. We at the New Church Of Montgomery have been fortunate enough to be able to take some of the opportunities to help that are in our community.

Bethany House Services, for whom we have done our ToySwap, the Something Wonderful art show, and brunches and dinners, continues to have the need of feeding unhoused families in the Cincinnati area.

If you would like to help provide a dinner for this community helper, please contact bethanyhouseservices.org.

Here is the dinner we provided for half of the families housed at a local hotel since shelters cannot adequately provide enough spacing during Covid-19.

Dinner for 48 of our neighbors: Smoked beef sausage, sautéed tri color bell peppers with onions, rice, applesauce, dinner roll, and chocolate chip cookies.

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Rice, applesauce, buns, peppers & onions, cookies
Bags of dinners
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#ThrowbackThursday: Owenites and Swedenborgians

As we explored last Sunday, Swedenborgians in Southwestern Ohio were interested in utopian ideals and were associated with the Owenite community which attempted to form in Yellow, Springs, OH. As you will see in the documents below, the Owenite society was involved in human rights and women’s rights. Thanks to Mary Ann Fischer and Scott Sanders from Antioch College.

#QuarantineReading: #ThisIsGodsTable @annawoof

Many of you heard Rev. Anna Woofenden speak about her passion for the Garden Church when she visited the New Church of Montgomery several years ago.

A beautiful book has come out of her experiences in cultivating and growing the Garden Church in San Pedro, CA.

Please give a gift to yourself (and to Anna!) by ordering this book to help it reveal parts of you that need tending to, to let go of pre-conceived notions of church, and to learn new ways to love your neighbor.

Hardback, Paperback or Kindle versions are available. Sign into your Amazon account through Amazon Smile, where you can designate a charitable recipient (i.e. The New Church of Montgomery, etc.)

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#ThursdayThoughts: #Survival, #Sanity, #Attention #Delight

From “The Artist’s Way,” by Julia Cameron

“Survival lies in sanity, and sanity lies in paying attention…The quality of life, is in proportion, always, to the capacity for delight.” Julia Cameron

As we weather these days ahead, days of uncertainty, let us pay attention and enjoy the moments that uplift us. Sharing our gifts of noticing, and nurturing. Listen to the birds beginning their morning discourse before the sun has even created the horizon. Listen to the sounds of children tumbling out of bed. Listen to the beat of your own heart. Here for a reason.

Delight in the gifts we are given.

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SaturdaySpecial: #Crochet #PlasticBags

New Church of Montgomery Board Member, Gloria Shepherd took time out of her Saturday to share a special skill: Crocheting sleeping mats made of plastic bags!

These mats require some basic materials:

  • About 800 plastic bags! (collect them from your friends, collect from the Kroger plastic bag recycling bin or purchase them online)
  • Sharp scissors
  • Size 8/9/10 (approx) Crochet hook
  • Patience!

You will begin by gathering clean, un-ripped plastic shopping bags.  Flatten them, making sure the rounded sides are tucked in.  Stack them by threes. Flatten again and cut off the handle end and bottoms of the bags, making straight cuts.

Fold them in half lengthwise twice.  Then, cut them into 2″ strips, discarding any that are jagged or not strong enough.

Next tie the strips together with knots (see video 1) and continue making a chain.  Eventually you will have a ball.  This project will use multiple “yarn” balls.

Make a side knot for your crochet hook, to begin your first chain (see video 2.)

To discover how to make a crochet chain stitch, see video 3:. Make about 75 chains to create your beginning row.  It should be approximately 36″ (3 feet long).

Begin your next line of crocheting by hooking into the last hole of the line you just created.  You will then make a double chain, which you will pull the “yarn” through.  Continue along that line in the same fashion.  When you reach the end you will make a single chain stitch and start the third line!  Make an extra crochet chain stitch at the end of each subsequent line to create room to line up with your previous line.

When your mat is done, the dimensions should be 3′ x 6′, and you can donate to Matthew 25 Ministries or give them to a person experiencing homelessness!

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Cutting into your folded bags: 2″ strips

 

 

Plastic strips, still folded up

Plastic strips, unfolded

Beginning “yarn” creation

plastic “Yarn” ball

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Loop for your crochet hook to fit into

Stay tuned in the months ahead to see the finished product! Learn more about basic crocheting here!

Organizations in our city that help the large population of un-housed people.

https://bethanyhouseservices.org/

http://www.shelterhousecincy.org/

https://www.lys.org/services/shelter-and-resources-for-homeless-young-adults-18-24/

https://cincihomeless.org/

http://www.iamsomebodyministries.org/

and more…

 

How were you useful today? #AddBeauty #Cincinnati

The end of the day is a good time to check in with yourself and see how it all went. One question you can ask is how were you helpful or useful. Little things count, because they sure add up to brighten your sunset. They can add up to make a better day for others, too! Did you save an insect? Did you plant a tree? Did you smile at a stranger? Did you love yourself? Pat yourself on the back and do it again tomorrow. With love.

Finding things in Common #FridayFeeling #ReligiousPlurality

from Swedenborg.com

Zen meant giving up the love and sense of a separate self and living passionately in the moment so as to leave one open to the influx of wisdom and enlightenment. Zen included the notion of work or service. This was at the very core of the Zen monk’s education known as the “Meditation Hall.”

https://swedenborg.com/scholars-american-pragmatism-swedenborg-and-zen/

two sitting man praying inside building

Photo by Anton Trava on Pexels.com

Include Those in Need in Your #BlackFriday Shopping,#Cincinnati

The New Church of Montgomery is collecting Winter Coats, Hats and Gloves for children in need who attend Glendale Elementary. Sizes 5-14 for boys and girls will be accepted on Sundays at the Glendale New Church; 845 Congress Avenue, Glendale, before or after our 11 am service. The school will distribute these items to chilly kids as they receive them.

Thank you for being useful with your extra dollars.